The Basics

[1] Numbers or letters in a series (in running text)

              The answers are (1) red, (2) green, and (3) blue.

[2] An aside, parenthetical matter, or a digression

              She was late (just as well, so was I) but when she arrived, she knocked me off my feet.
              I cleaned the dog
(oh boy he stunk) and then dried him and put him to bed.

[3] Explanatory information

              The car (the red one) is broken.

Beyond the Basics

[4] To indicate doubt. (?)

              Her name was Grizelda (?), or maybe Gribelga.

[5] To indicate surprise. (!)

              She looked so tired (!) that I almost didn't recognize her.

Syntax

No comma before the opening parenthesis.

If parentheses are located within a sentence (even if they enclose a complete sentence), then do not capitalize the first enclosed word and do not end it with a
period inside the closing parenthesis.

              I wandered
(in a stupor) all the way to jail.
              I ran
(the dog chased me all the way) to my house.

But do include a question mark when appropriate.

              I couldn't believe my eyes
(why me?) when I saw the cliff.
    
Also, If you have more than one sentence enclosed in parenthesis within a sentence, then you do punctuate as normal between the enclosed sentences. (Pay
close attention to the punctuation.) Note: this construction should generally be avoided.

              The ugly dog
(well, maybe ugly is a bit harsh. Let's say average instead) couldn't catch the ball.

If the sentence ends with a closing parenthesis, then place the appropriate punctuation outside.
Note: a period only goes inside the ending parenthesis if the enclosed mater is a stand alone sentence (not within another sentence).

              She hates me
(even though I love her).

If the parenthetical matter is located in the same place in a sentence where a comma belongs, place the comma after the closing parenthesis.

              I talked to her
(at least I tried), but it didn't do any good.

If the enclosed information is a stand alone sentence, then punctuate it as one (internally).

              She would be furious.
(If she only knew.)
              (Are you sure?)

Usage Key

Misuse

Let's Talk Style

Think of parentheses as a whisper.

              Dogs
(particularly large ones) are great snuggle buddies.
              (Emphasis is on dogs)

Commas lend an even tone.

              Dogs
, particularly fuzzy ones, are great snuggle buddies.
              (Emphasis is evenly distributed)

Em dashes scream.

              Dogs
--particularly fuzzy ones--are great snuggle buddies.
              (Emphasis is on "particularly fuzzy ones.")

Let's see how the pros use it
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